Don't want to get into details with your mom? More on this topic for: Get turned on like by masturbating beforehand. If necessary, use lots of lube. Fingering and fisting are low risk activities when in comes to STIs and can be very enjoyable. But itching and redness that lasts for a couple of weeks also could be a sign of an infection that could get worse if it isn't treated.
Because other sexually transmitted diseases STDs also can be passed by oral sex, use a dental dam when a girl is receiving oral sex or a condom when a guy is receiving oral sex to protect against infection.
Fingering and Fisting
This will help especially if you are someone with a vagina, because your vagina will become wet and provide natural lubrication. Try combining fingering and fisting with kissing or stimulation of other parts of the body. Fingering and fisting are low risk activities when in comes to STIs and can be very enjoyable. So you should get checked out by a doctor or nurse practitioner. Moving bacteria from the butt into the vagina can cause an infection. I'm 14 and still a virgin, but my boyfriend fingers me and gives me oral sex.